Why am I passionate about this?

I became fascinated by the Victorian period when I started tracing my family tree in my teens. I wanted to find out more about my ancestors’ lives, and social history quickly became my passion. At weekends, I would visit stately homes and country houses, and I was always more interested in the kitchens and servants’ quarters below the stairs than the grand rooms upstairs. Oral history is one of the most under-valued sources, but it really brings history to life. This list features some of the most detailed memoirs and diaries by domestic servants who wrote about their working lives. Hope you enjoy them!


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Servants' Stories: Life Below Stairs in their Own Words 1800-1950

By Michelle Higgs,

Book cover of Servants' Stories: Life Below Stairs in their Own Words 1800-1950

What is my book about?

This book allows you to step into the world of domestic service and discover what life was really like for…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of The Diaries of Hannah Cullwick: Victorian Maidservant

Michelle Higgs Why did I love this book?

Hannah Cullwick worked all her life in domestic service, starting at the age of eight in 1841. Her diaries are unique and they were written at the behest of Arthur Munby, an upper-class author and poet, who later became her husband. In her diaries, Hannah describes her employers, the nature of her work, and how she found her different jobs through servants’ registries, personal recommendations, and newspapers. 

What’s fascinating is that the diaries are presented with Hannah’s spelling and grammar, so her voice leaps off the page. Liz Stanley, who edited Hannah’s diaries, also provides an excellent introduction to Hannah’s life; her highly unusual secret eighteen-year-courtship with Munby; and the reasons their marriage of thirty-six years was also kept secret. 

By Liz Stanley, Hannah Cullwick,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked The Diaries of Hannah Cullwick as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"Hannah Cullwick (1833-1909) worked all her life as a maidservant, scullion, and pot-girl. In 1854 she met Arthur Munby, 'man of two worlds,' upper-class author and poet, with a lifelong obsession for lower-class women. And so began their strange and secret romance of eighteen years and marriage of thiry-six, lived largely apart. Hannah's diaries, written on Munby's suggestion, offer an obsorbing account of life 'below stairs' in Victorian England. But they reveal, too, a woman of extraordinary independence of will, whose chosen life of drudgery gave her the freedom not to 'play the Lady,' as Munby demanded. Rescued from obscurity.…


Book cover of What the Butler Winked At: Being the Life and Adventures of Eric Horne, Butler

Michelle Higgs Why did I love this book?

In spite of its title, Eric Horne’s What the Butler Winked At does not contain any really juicy tales about his employers. But what it does do is lift the lid on Horne’s working experiences as a footman, valet and butler during a career spanning 50 years, starting in the 1870s. 

Interestingly, Horne wrote his book in 1923 at a time when the great country estates were beginning to break up and he was struggling to find work. Horne was not a professional writer so there are grammar issues; also, some of the anecdotes may not be amusing to modern readers. But the book is packed with fascinating details about what life was like working in domestic service, not just for male servants, but female servants too.

By Eric Horne,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked What the Butler Winked At as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Eric Horne served as a butler in some of the great English country manors from the 1860s until just after World War I, when many of the families whose heirs died in battle were forced to sell off their homes. Born in Southampton, Horne came from a humble family who valued education. Horne excelled in school and wished to go to sea, but lacking his parents' permission, he instead ended up as a footboy for a local household. Over the years, Horne moved up in the service of the aristocracy: his goal was to become butler to the king of…


Book cover of Campaigns of Curiosity: Journalistic Adventures of an American Girl in London

Michelle Higgs Why did I love this book?

Elizabeth Banks was an American journalist who settled in London around 1893. She undertook a series of ‘adventures’ in which she posed as a laundry girl, a crossing sweeper, a flower girl, a chaperone, an heiress, and a domestic servant. In working as a maid, she hoped to discover why domestic service ‘was looked upon with so much contumely’. 

Originally published as "In Cap and Apron" in the Weekly Sun, Elizabeth’s experiences were then published in 1894 in Campaigns of Curiosity: Journalistic Adventures of an American Girl in London. It’s not clear how much artistic licence Elizabeth used when describing her time in domestic service, but she does provide some interesting details about the duties of staff in households where three or four servants were employed.

By Elizabeth L. Banks,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Campaigns of Curiosity as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Campaigns of Curiosity; Journalistic Adventures of an American Girl in London is the autobiography of a girl from New Jersey living in London during the height of the Victorian Era.


Book cover of Diary of William Tayler, Footman 1837

Michelle Higgs Why did I love this book?

William Tayler worked as a footman in London for the wealthy widow Mrs. Prinsep and her unmarried daughter. He kept a diary for the year 1837 "as I am a wretched bad writer [and] many of my friends have advised me to practice more…" On Sundays, he usually went to see his wife and children who were lodged nearby, although he never mentions her or them by name. 

As it focuses on just one year, the diary only provides a snapshot of William’s working life. However, it gives an illuminating insight into the life of a male servant for the gentry, including details of what William did in his spare time and how the wealthy entertained. Research has shown that he later became a butler.

By Dorothy Wise Tayler,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Diary of William Tayler, Footman 1837 as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Before you read William’s Journal, it is necessary to sketch in his background as briefly as possible. He came from the hamlet of Grafton, which is situated in the south-west corner of Oxfordshire, not far from Faringdon in Berkshire. Its seven grey Cotswold stone farmhouses are linked together by a brook and in the old days you could walk from one house to another along the brookside. These farmhouses sit like old ladies facing the sun and are all on the north side of the brook. In front of them lies all that is left of Grafton Common. If you…


Book cover of Life as We Have Known It

Michelle Higgs Why did I love this book?

With this book, you get two servants for the price of one! This is a collection of memories from working women who were members of the Women’s Co-operative Guild. The two servants are Mrs. Layton (chapter titled "Memories of Seventy Years") and Mrs. Wrigley (chapter title "A Plate-Layer’s Wife"). Mrs. Wrigley’s recollections of domestic service only span three pages, but she describes her first place, aged nine, as a servant-of-all-work in heart-breaking detail. Mrs. Layton describes ten years in service from the age of ten with some kind (and not so kind) employers. After her marriage, she became a midwife. 

By Co-operative Women’s Guild, Margaret Llewelyn Davies (editor),

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Life as We Have Known It as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

“You unlocked a drawer and took out a packet of papers. . . . Sometimes, you said, you got a letter which you could not bring yourself to burn; once or twice a Guildswoman had at your suggestion written a few pages about her life . . .” ―Virginia Woolf to Margaret Llewelyn Davies, describing the circumstances leading to the publication of Life as We Have Known It

A first-hand record of working class women’s experiences in early twentieth-century England, Life as We Have Known It is a unique view of lives Virginia Woolf described as “still half hidden in…


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Servants' Stories: Life Below Stairs in their Own Words 1800-1950

By Michelle Higgs,

Book cover of Servants' Stories: Life Below Stairs in their Own Words 1800-1950

What is my book about?

This book allows you to step into the world of domestic service and discover what life was really like for these unsung heroines (and heroes) of society. Between 1800 and 1950, the role of servants changed dramatically but they remained the people without whom the upper and middle classes could not function. Through oral histories, diaries, newspaper reports, and never-before-seen testimony, domestic servants tell their stories, warts and all—Downton, it isn’t!

Stories include a servant getting revenge on her mistress with a box of beetles; the despair and loneliness of a 14-year-old maid; the adventure of moving to London to go into service; and an escape from an unhappy home life.

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